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Recommended Reading
Looking for a good book about families, parenting or relationships? Start here, and explore these books I've selected for
you. All of these books are available now at Amazon.com (or at your favorite bookstore).
- Reading Magic
- Caring for Your Baby and Young Child
- Travelmates
- Dr. Seuss' Sleep Book
- I Only Say This Because I Love You
- Raising Adopted Children

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Reading
Magic: Why Reading Aloud to Our Children Will Change Their Lives Forever by Mem Fox
Paperback
HardcoverBestselling author and literacy expert Mem Fox reveals the incredible emotional and intellectual impact
reading aloud to children has on their ability to learn to read.
All parents want and expect their children to learn to read, but few realize they can get their kids on the
road to reading long before they start school simply by reading aloud to them every day. With passion and humor, acclaimed
author and internationally respected literacy expert Mem Fox tells readers how she herself became aware of the astonishing
effects that reading aloud and bonding through books have on very young children.
She speaks of when, where, and why to read aloud and demonstrates how to read aloud to best effect and how
to get the most out of a read-aloud session. She walks readers through the three secrets of reading which together make reading
possible. She gives guidance on defining, choosing, and finding good books and closes with tips on dealing effectively with
the challenges that sometimes arise when children are learning to read.
Filled with practical advice, activities, and inspiring true read-aloud miracles, this book is a must for
every parent-and for anyone interested in how children learn to read.
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Caring
for Your Baby and Young Child: Birth to Age 5 by The American
Academy of Pediatrics, Stephen P. Shelov (Editor), Steven P. Shelov (Editor),
Robert E. Hannemann (Editor)
Hardcover
Paperback
It's Sunday after dark. Your baby is sick, hurt, or acting
strangely, and the doctor won't be in until tomorrow. How can you find out what
to do when your healthcare professionals are unreachable? You may only need to
go as far as your bookshelf. The revised edition of Caring for Your Baby and
Young Child: Birth to Age 5 (the American Academy of Pediatrics' reference book
for infancy through preschool), provides a wealth of authoritative child-care
information in an easy-to-use format.
The first half of this hefty text serves as a comprehensive parenting manual,
and includes a month-by-month guide to the first year, nutritional information,
basic care instructions, and physical, emotional, and social developmental
milestones for children up to 5 years old. While the American Academy of
Pediatrics represents the mainstream child-rearing philosophies embraced by
thousands of baby doctors, it does not reflect the entire gamut of child-rearing
theory. (There's no discussion, for instance, of breast-feeding past the first
year or co-sleeping.) The second half of the book includes a thorough,
easy-to-navigate emergency first-aid section, plus detailed information about
childhood illnesses, immunization schedules and side effects, and family
structures, as well as a discussion of behavioral issues. Caring for Your Baby
and Young Child is useful, sensible, and carefully researched, and makes a
trustworthy addition to any parent's bookshelf.
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Dr.
Seuss' Sleep Book by Dr. Seuss
Hardcover
Illustrated in color. "Deliberately calculated to make its
readers yawn. No one could resist those zillions of astonishing
sleepyheads."--The New York Times. A Chunky Book® with an added surprise--a
punch-out piece to play with.
Everyone loves Dr. Seuss! Winner of the Pulitzer Prize in 1984
and three Academy Awards, Seuss was the author and illustrator of 44 children's
books, some of which have been made into audiocassettes, animated television
specials, and videos for children of all ages. Even after his death in 1991, Dr.
Seuss continues to be the best-selling author of children's books in the world.
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Travelmates:
Fun Games Kids Can Play in the Car or on the Go-No Materials Needed by Story Evans
Paperback
For traveling in a car, train, plane, bus or waiting in a line at
restaurant or a doctor's office, these 103 classic children's games which can be
played between children or between adults and children requires nothing more
than the players, their imaginations, memories, minds, and their sense of humor.
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Only Say This Because I Love You: How the Way We Talk Can Make or Break
Family Relationships Throughout Our Lives by Deborah Tannen
Hardcover
"Everything we say to each other echoes with meanings left over from our past
experience--both our history talking to the person before us at this moment and
our history talking to others," says Deborah Tannen, one of the world's most
famous linguists. We react not only to the message, but to the "metamessage":
our interpretation of the unstated meaning, based on tone, relationship, and our
past associations. Add in the connections and control issues among family
members, and it's no wonder families have so much trouble understanding each
other!
I Only Say This Because I Love You is aimed mostly at adult family interactions.
Professor Deborah Tannen, the popular author of You Just Don't Understand, uses
anecdotes filled with dialogues to illustrate why we hear criticism when the
other person meant to convey caring, how family members create alignments with
secrets and broken confidences, the dynamics of arguments, the power of
apologies, gender patterns in family talk, and communication with teens. You're
bound to recognize your family members--and yourself!--in Tannen's examples.
You won't find quick, easy answers for improving communication in your family,
but you will discover another dimension of understanding what's really going on.
Now if you could just get your mother to read the book!
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Raising
Adopted Children: Practical Reassuring Advice for Every Adoptive Parent by Lois Ruskai Melina
Paperback
"Some people may describe adoption as difficult; others simply
describe it as different. I am inclined to think of it as complex," writes Lois
Ruskai Melina in the updated, revised Raising Adopted Children: Practical,
Reassuring Advice for Every Adoptive Parent.
Adoption practices have evolved considerably since this book's
first publication in 1986, and the new version of the "Dr. Spock for adoptive
parents" reflects the latest theories. Drawing on the findings and practices of
pediatricians, social workers, scientists, and adoptive parents, Raising Adopted
Children is carefully and thoroughly researched. Chapters on open adoption,
international adoption, and transracial adoption are combined with advice on
bonding and attachment, breast-feeding an adoptive infant (possible but
complicated), dealing with schools, privacy issues, adopting a child with
disabilities, adopting as a single parent, and the challenges of adolescence.
While Melina's many years of professional and personal experience shape her
advice, she remains very evenhanded. For example, she's a strong proponent of
the "early telling" theory of adoption (being open about the adoption with the
child from the beginning), but she also clearly presents other points of view,
and, throughout the book, encourages parents to make decisions that feel right
for them.
The text includes specific suggestions for explaining a child's birth
circumstances, including common misconceptions, and a valuable discussion about
whether adoptees are at greater risk for behavior problems or learning
disabilities. She also provides suggestions for setting rules for contact with
biological parents, easing grief, and acknowledging a child's history. A
completely annotated list of selected references and resources rounds out this
superior guide.
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